Back to school: socio-emotional

How to Activate Socio-Emotional Support in the Classroom

The beginning of a new school year is both exciting and challenging. After the holidays, students combine enthusiasm about seeing their friends again with nerves and questions about what is new. In this context, socio-emotional support is key. It is not just about fulfilling the curriculum, but about cultivating a safe, caring, and positive environment where every student can grow and fully develop.

The evidence is clear: teaching and strengthening socio-emotional skills improves academic performance and overall well-being. Addressing the human side is not an extra; it is a condition for school and personal success.

Why is socio-emotional support important?

A student who feels safe, valued, and understood learns better. Classrooms that take care of climate and relationships show better academic outcomes and higher motivation. There is also better school adjustment and coexistence, with fewer problematic behaviors such as bullying or violence.

At the start of the school year, socio-emotional support acts as a cushion (regulating emotions in the face of change) and as a driver (encouraging participation, collaboration, and perseverance). That is why teachers, administrators, counselors, and support staff must be aligned from day one.

Keys to activating socio-emotional support in the classroom

Research identifies four key practices:

  • Create a supportive classroom climate
  • Cultivate positive teacher-student relationships
  • Strengthen peer relationships
  • Explicitly teach and practice socio-emotional skills

Below, we explore each of these strategies and how to implement them in practice during the back-to-school period.

1. Create a socio-emotionally supportive classroom climate

The classroom climate is the foundation of learning. It involves creating a physically and emotionally safe environment where mutual respect, kindness, and trust prevail. In a positive classroom climate, students feel safe to take risks without fear of making mistakes, knowing that errors are a natural part of learning and that they will always receive support to try again.

Fostering a warm environment from the start helps students adapt more easily. A student who feels “this is my class, I belong here, and I can be myself” will be much more willing to learn and give their best.

How to create a supportive climate from the beginning?

Establish positive classroom norms

Dedicate time during the first week to co-create classroom rules with students, emphasizing values such as respect, empathy, and cooperation. Involving them in defining “how do we want to treat each other in class?” promotes a sense of belonging and shared responsibility.

Express warmth and openness

Greet each student personally, learn their names quickly, and show closeness. A smile and a sincere “How are you?” each morning help them feel welcome. Teachers who make each student feel seen and heard are building the foundation for a trusting climate.

Normalize mistakes and effort

Make it clear from the first day that mistakes are part of learning. Share examples of how errors lead to new ideas. Respond immediately to any teasing or hurtful comments between students, reinforcing why we treat each other respectfully. When students see the classroom as a safe space where they will not be ridiculed for failing, they are more willing to participate and persist in difficult tasks.

Spaces and rituals for well-being

Include a “calm corner” or an emotional check-in minute at the beginning of class. These routines communicate: your emotions matter, and there is space to express them.

2. Cultivate positive teacher-student relationships

The personal relationship with each student is a pillar of socio-emotional support. When a student feels that their teacher knows them, listens to them, and cares, trust emerges — a force that motivates and sustains learning.

Actions to cultivate teacher-student relationships

Know each student’s story

Take time to talk individually with each student in the first weeks. Ask about their interests, concerns, family, or even their holidays. These small moments show the student: “you matter to me as a person.”

Practice active listening and empathy

Show genuine interest when students speak, maintain eye contact, nod, and ask questions that show understanding. Validate their feelings (“I understand that you’re nervous about the new school — it’s normal to feel that way”). Feeling understood without judgment builds trust.

Be a mentor and a model

Teachers teach life skills in every interaction. Modeling patience, calm emotional management, or positive conflict resolution sends powerful messages. A calm and assertive response to misconduct shows students how to manage intense emotions respectfully.

Availability and support

Let students know that you are there to help. This may involve office hours or safe spaces for conversations. Pay attention to warning signs — sudden withdrawal, unexplained poor performance — and approach gently: “I noticed you were quiet today, is something going on?” Early intervention is easier when trust exists.

It is important to remember that teachers are also human. To support students emotionally, teachers must also care for their own emotional well-being. Developing self-awareness about one’s own emotions, biases, and reactions helps manage stress and relate with more empathy.

3. Strengthen peer relationships

Peer relationships are the everyday support network. Strengthening socio-emotional competencies like empathy and social skills improves peer interactions and reduces phenomena such as bullying. Feeling supported by classmates boosts mood, engagement, and even long-term academic performance.

Strategies to promote a positive group climate

Integration activities

Reserve time for icebreakers, small-group projects, or debates so students can get to know each other personally.

Promote collaboration over competition

Encourage group challenges or cooperative learning so students rely on each other and value everyone’s strengths.

Dialogue circles and mediation

Create regular spaces where students discuss concerns or resolve conflicts in a guided and respectful environment.

Peer tutoring projects

Buddy systems or cross-grade mentors build connection, mentorship, and inclusion.

Include and highlight diversity

Ensure no student is systematically left out. Rotate groups, mix teams, and highlight everyone’s contributions.

4. Explicitly teach and practice socio-emotional skills

Beyond creating a supportive environment, socio-emotional skills must be explicitly taught. Competencies such as self-awareness, emotional regulation, empathy, assertiveness, and conflict resolution do not develop automatically — they must be taught, practiced, and refined.

The good news: scientific evidence shows these skills are malleable throughout life and can be taught at any educational stage.

Actions to activate SES instruction

Dedicated SES sessions or workshops

Include a weekly or biweekly block for socio-emotional learning. Use structured programs (e.g., CASEL-based) to practice emotion identification, stress management, empathy, assertive communication, etc.

Integrate SES into academic subjects

Use literature, history, science, or physical education to explore emotions, ethics, teamwork, and perspective-taking.

Practice through activities and games

Role-plays, cooperative games, case studies, and guided reflection help internalize SES.

Continuous reinforcement and feedback

Praise positive socio-emotional behaviors and guide students with empathy when difficulties arise. Encourage self-assessment over time.

Time, space, and evaluation for socio-emotional support

Socio-emotional support requires intentionality — time, space, and consistency. Every teacher can contribute: a calm response in conflict, encouraging participation, modeling collaboration.

Evaluation is also necessary. Although SES is hard to quantify, there are observable signs: greater self-regulation, improved dialogue, emotional vocabulary, and healthier peer interactions.

Here, technology is a powerful ally. Human AI provides tools to evaluate and strengthen socio-emotional skills such as empathy, self-regulation, and conflict resolution in real time.

Evaluation must be formative, not punitive: its purpose is to understand and support growth, not to label students.

Conclusion: Prioritize the human to enhance learning

Activating socio-emotional support is not just making students momentarily feel good — it is preparing fertile ground for a meaningful school year. A student who feels supported emotionally is more resilient, more engaged, and better equipped to learn.

Teachers, administrators, and counselors play a crucial role. Every gesture counts. We return to school with the conviction that we connect first with the heart so we can later teach the mind.

If you would like to learn how we can help your institution strengthen these competencies, we invite you to try our free demo and discover how technology can support socio-emotional well-being and development for every student.